You know the phrase, get that off your chest? Well I think I'm about to experience heavy dosage of that. I can't sleep, tossing and turning at all the mistakes I made, letting people use me, letting my girlfriends take my money. Well I have some food for thought for your close minded selves. If money is such a big deal, and you get angry over such a trivial matter as "He didn't pay for my lunch cause he has no money.", whose wrong is it? I ask you this, if money is so important and the guy you love is important too, do you let money get in the way? Or are you just gonna suck it up, pay your own bill and avoid ruining your day.
A guy will spend when he wants to. That's how I feel about it, if he's happy, spend away. Be wise with the money, don't spend on every date. IT'S NOT A MUST at this stage in life when we're not working yet. Why? I ask you this as well. "Where's your money coming from?" or more particularly, "Where is the guy's money coming from?". By all means if the guy is working and has loads of money, spend away. But what about those who don't have money? Are you going to compensate? Or still force him to pay with your bitchy- sorry; puppy dog eyes? Or will you suck it up and just pay for your own, after all you wanna keep the relationship right? Or is the money more important?
Think deeper, a guy will pay when he can, when he has some extra money and he would like to spend it on his girlfriend cause his girlfriend has been such a sweet girl to him. Same in vice versa, if it applies to guys why not girls? Your boyfriend just bought you a car, the least you can do is take him for dinner, he's probably dirt broke when he bought you the car. But, coming back to my main point, from my perspective. Would you force a jobless guy who collects allowance from his parents to pay on every outing? Firstly, where is the money come from? That's right, his parents. So are you dating his parents?
The whole idea of spending on someone is that it came from your own hard earned money and you wanna show it to someone as a form of thanks, forgiveness, pity, present? It doesn't matter what the reason is, because you made that money on your own.
Dig a little deeper again, guys. Why do parents give us allowance? General rule of thumb is food, drinks and extra money to take a cab home when you don't have transport. There isn't anything in the allowance list in our parent's minds that say they have to SPEND ON THEIR GIRLFRIENDS.
Spending shouldn't be a force, it isn't a rule and it'll definitely feel better for girls if the guy spends on her out of the kindness of his heart. Same goes for girls. Are you kind? Or just too greedy. You decide. You know what I would like to call girls who get angry cause they boyfriend doesn't wanna call cause the bill is touching RM600, or when he doesn't have money to buy the girl expensive presents or even pay for meals? (Again, I'm refering to the jobless association of man, namely me and my friends who are in college / still studying.) That's right, I call ya'll Gold Diggin Bitches. GDB for short. Are you a GDB? Get your act together. If you wanna ask questions like "Am I a good girlfriend to you?" the first thing that comes to your mind should be "Am I a GDB?"
/rage off.
Good night girls (Since mostly only girls read my blog) and some guys.
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